Posts Tagged ‘books’

Easter Basket Ideas

Written by Elena @The Art of Making a Baby. Posted in Alexis, Life as a Toddler, New Mom Experience

Easter Basket

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This year will be the first time that we put together an Easter basket and do an egg hunt. Last year was a bit stressful, even though we did attempt to go out.

I just finished putting together and ordering items for Alexis’ Easter basket so I figured I’d share, in case someone is searching for ideas that aren’t candy or cheap toxic toys.

We are about to embark on a potty learning (I do not like using  the term training, but I occasionally do use it because it’s an accepted term) journey so I thought it’d be a great opportunity to get her some potty books and training undies for it in her Easter basket.

“Fun things to do with your Instagrams” Friday

Written by Elena @The Art of Making a Baby. Posted in Alexis, Daily, FUN Times, LIFE, New Mom Experience, Other, photo, REVIEWS

 

Last two weeks on Instagram and cell phone photos

life rearranged

  1. Idiot parents
  2. New car seat and first time asleep in the car without a meltdown. WIN!
  3.  Peace out
  4. A little outing to get some food
  5. Same as above
  6. Hanging out at whole foods waiting for daddy to come out because it was too cold inside
  7. Pretty in pink on Instagram Elena-edition
  8. Pretty in pink Lexi-edition
  9. Pretty ladies handing out at home in our Moby wrap

  1. sitting up like a big girl
  2. chewing on tiny love
  3. playing on her own while mommy cooks ( a first!)
  4. trying on newly received bikinis from VS
  5. trying on newly received swimsuit for Lexi, which was just not big enough for her to grow into. Adorable nonetheless
  6. CRAWLING!!!!! No, not completely, just trying…
  7. Playing with feet in the morning
  8. Taking 30 minutes to myself to relax and read a book
  9. break interrupted by this cutie. It’s ok, I didn’t want to rest anyways

  1. Playing on her mat again
  2. Hanging out on the front porch swing- she loves doing that
  3. Blowing bubbles on the front porch
  4. Attempting to crawl
  5. Trying out our new parasol for Mutsy ( love it!)
  6. Completely dehydrated as evidenced by my strangely flat belly
  7. No bake cake (YUMMY)
  8. Helping daddy build the new Finn&Emma gym
  9. Playing with the gym

  1. She prefers playing sitting up rather than on her back
  2. trying to catch the wooden teether
  3. in-camera snapshots of Lexi’s first playground trip
  4. Morning walks, hurrying home since it was really really hot
  5. All dressed up and pretty
  6. Big freaking boobs – still can’t get used to them
  7. Going over to a friend’s house and shopping, looking like someone died
  8. Being beyond adorable in her carseat
  9. Lexi’s reaction to me singing “the Mermaid” song

 

4th of July spoilers:

  1. What was supposed to be Lexi’s outfit
  2. Getting read and running late
  3. In the car, hair is already falling
  4. left: her 4th of july outfit, right: what she ended up wearing after a diaper blowout
  5. Taking a break from the party and trying to nurse Lexi to sleep
  6. same as above
  7. No luck, she’s too hyped
  8. My two loveys
  9. Late night party girls- we got home at 12am, thankfully she fell asleep in the car (thank you, new carseat!)

Also I want to let you guys know about this awesome service I found recently that takes your Instagram photos and turns them adorable mementos with just a click of a button. With so little time to do picture books and baby books (which I’m still planning on doing), this is a great way to just take 1 minute to turn some of your best Instargram photos into posters, picture books, mini books and stickers. I am absolutely IN LOVE with all that they offer. It’s super easy to do and the best part is it’s CHEAP!

You simply connect it with you account and pick which pics you want to include or hit select all and two weeks later you will have a mini book, strickers or a poster in your mailbox.

Check mine out.

This is a minibook. Each has 50 photos and you get 2 books in one order for $12

I have one for myself and gave on to my mom to remember the first months of Alexis’ life.

The stickers are so much fun and I can imagine can be used with kids as a reward system. What kid doesn’t love looking at their own pictures?

I  put half of them on my laptop and that way each day I get to see my little baby on my wrist pad.

And finally my favorite product is the poster. I totally meant to give it to my mom to take with her to Russia, but we both completely forgot, so now I am trying to decide where to hang it. {any ideas?}

 

You can enter this quick and simple giveaway for a chance to win 1 poster, a minibook and stickers.

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Disclosure: I was NOT compensated for this post. Printstagr.am let me create the products to try. All opinions are my own.

Kids TV and Books + Question

Written by Elena @The Art of Making a Baby. Posted in My Pregnancy, PREGNANCY, Q of the week

After reading a few books about brain development in the first 5 years, I became determined NOT to expose our child to any TV (even so-called educational DVDs) before age 2. That’s what most baby books recommend and the research is pretty strong on it. I had no problem with that since we don’t watch TV at home either ( we do watch series and movies that we get from Netflix in our movie room, but never actual mindless cable TV) and just sold our 60 inch TV because we hadn’t turned it on for 2 years, so it was just a waste of space. Once our baby turns 2 or so, we’ll be doing family time with movies and select cartoons, but I cannot stand having a non-stop TV running in the living room ( and I am sooooo sooo lucky my husband agrees, because I know most guys do the whole “zombied out in front of the TV” thing)

However, what DID bother me about not doing any TV time before age of 2 is that I wouldn’t be able to expose our baby to  Disney characters and stories. Being Disneyworld and Universal fanatics that we are, even since before we got pregnant, we would daydream about one day taking our own kid to the parks and enjoying the parks with them on a completely different level. We often talk about where we’d go and what rides we would take him/her on and what characters they’d see.

So in my head I struggled against doing the right thing and not having any TV exposure before two and at the same time giving our baby the joy that cartoons and characters and storylines bring.

So today as I was going through Zulily’s book sale, something ridiculously simple dawned on me:

OF COURSE, I CAN EXPOSE OUR BABY TO DISNEY CHARACTERS! THROUGH BOOKS!


Its so simple but it never occurred to me that there ARE books based on Disney and Universal cartoons. They are bright, colorful and FUN! And most importantly, they will foster interaction and language development, all without any need to resort to TVs.

I’m just really so excited about it that I had to write a post ( which I will try to do more of- short posts like this).
I love books and I cannot wait to start buying some! Yeek- I’m going to go look for them right now :)

So speaking of books, which books did your newborns like? I have no idea where or how to find books acceptable for newborns and infants, but I do want to read from birth ( I read Russian fairy-tales out loud since the baby can hear now, but I’d like to find something appropriate in English, as well as Spanish)

Epigenetics and Prenatal Development

Written by Elena @The Art of Making a Baby. Posted in HEALTH, Msc, My Pregnancy, Pre-CONCEPTION

As I continue to seek out and read books about prenatal development and epigenetics ( in my words, a study of how genes get turned on and off without changing DNA during intra-uterine development), I am more and more amazed at how much we don’t know, our mothers didn’t know, and many doctors, who refuse to educate themselves, don’t know.

And in this case what we don’t know CAN hurt us and our babies.

My current read is Origins: How the Nine Months Before Birth Shape the Rest of Our Lives by Annie Murphy Paul, a scientific writer who set out to educate herself as she embarked on her second pregnancy.
I’m only on chapter 2, but it goes along the same lines Dr Verny followed in his Pre-Parenting: Nurturing Your Child from Conception.

Right now, I am reading about nutrition and how it affects the expression of genes and level of hormones. It’s actually not new to me. I read about it in my favorite pre-conception book Get Ready to Get Pregnant: Your Complete Prepregnancy Guide to Making a Smart and Healthy Baby.
It was a new concept to me at the time, that what we eat and how we eat can “program” the fetus by “turning the genes on and off”, but it turns out it’s not that uncommon of a concept in the scientific world. It’s just our real world is pretty slow to jump on the bang wagon ( as it has always been with any medical breakthrough that challenges the previous notions).

For those who are curious, just a quick example in short:

Nature made it so that the intrauterine environment “lets” the baby know of the world outside of us via hormones and a few other processes.
For example, if a mother is constantly stressed and the released cortisol crosses the placenta, the baby’s brain will be programmed for the flight-or-fight response, taking from it the fact that in the outside world, the baby will need to be quick and vigilant. The baby will come out of the womb ready for the environment that was “pre-programmed” into him, fast and unable to focus, possibly even predisposed to aggression. That’s how evolution helped our ancestors survive.
…or…
By eating lots of sugar and simple carbs that send our insulin skyrocketing (and doing it all the time), we’re “teaching” our unborn baby to become insulin resistant, so in the future he/she might have troubles keeping weight off (apparently, insulin also controls how our body stores fat). The same happens with leptin, the substance that tells us when we are full. I don’t remember the exact mechanism by which leptin resistance occurs in a unborn baby ( i think it was somehow connected with insulin as well), but it creates a human being who is unable to know when to stop eating.

On another hand, {i read in the new book} it turns out that low birth weight babies (due to malnutrition specifically, I don’t think that other reasons, like preterm birth, were included in that) suffer from the same problems as  babies born with insulin resistance- diabetes, obesity, heart disease. At first glance, it’s surprising, but before I even read the explanation for why it happens, it made perfect sense to me:

When the baby doesn’t receive enough nutrients, it learns to live on little, his body being “programmed” that food out in the real world is scare. However, when he’s born into the world of excess and processed foods, his body can’t handle it properly, having been “taught” to store every single nutrient received (kind of in the same way the fad starvation diets never work long term). I guess the effects were the worst for babies who were malnutritioned during the 2nd and 3rd trimester.
What baffled me, though, was why the heart disease? What would this have to do with the heart? The explanation was the following: by receiving few nutrients, the fetus “sends” them to the most important organ in our body, our brain, leaving other organs short of necessary food. That, later in life, came back to bite him. In addition, inability to properly control and process high fat, processed diets helped that too.  They did a study on the survivors of one winter during World War II, during which food was so scarce that most people had to live on 500 calories a day ( including pregnant women), and a tremendous amount of survivors born or conceived during that winter were obese,with diabetes and heart disease, compared to babies born during other times. Here the effects were stronger, if malnutrition happened during the first trimester, when the heart was developing {which isn’t really fair, because of morning sickness which is something that our body does to us)

There’s an amazing amount of information and studies brought up in all three books I mentioned, it’d be impossible to relay every single detail of even one example here. It’s definitely fascinating and opened my eyes on many things. Even if you’re sceptical, I’d recommend you read it, because the examples and studies brought up in the books are pretty convincing.

Either way, as I go through this, I find it slightly difficult to find a happy middle. Everywhere we turn there another advisory about what is good or bad during pregnancy. It seems like everything can influence the baby. Omegas-3s in fish are great for the brain and produces higher IQ scores, but at the same time, fish is high in mercury, exposure to which produces low IQ scores. It’s like we can’t do anything right. {btw, my personal answer to the fish dilemma are sardines- small fish that doesn’t accumulate much mercury at all and one of the best fatty fishes for Omega-3s. Canned sardines are tasty, safe and very nutritious}.

My personal dilemma has been Vitamin E. When I was preparing for pregnancy, I found one Prenatal Vitamins brand that fit what I wanted,which  was “no vitamin or mineral could exceed 100% of daily value” ( it’s amazing how many prenatal vitamins have mega doses). I was very happy about it, until I showed it to my OB, who liked it a lot too, until he saw vitamin E content- 100% of DV. Then he informed me that there have been studies that linked vitamin E consumption to heart defects. So he prescribed me a formula that had 50% of vitamin E. After I got home, I jumped online to try and research those claims. I did, in fact, find plenty of articles citing several studies in which vitamin E consumption before pregnancy and during pregnancy of as little as 2/3 of Daily Value was linked with 9 fold increased risk of heart defect.
Obviously, supplementing vitamin E was not something I wanted to do ( considering I was already eating at the point where I received everything at at least 100% from food). Vitamin E can be found in oil, nuts, but the truth is I don’t really consume oil, or products that contain oil ( processed foods), and I am not a fan of nuts ( though I do take them for their nutritional benefit).

For a bit, i wondered whether that increased risk was connected more with consumption of fatty, oily foods, rather than actual vitamin E. But of course I can’t completely discount the study based on a hunch. So I don’t supplement E, but I don’t really get much E from diet. I’m between a rock and a hard place. Hubby and I decided that we’d curb vitamin E consumption pre-pregnancy and during the 1st trimester when the heart is developing, and then ease up on that in the 2nd trimester. But I still feel uneasy about the whole situation….

Thanksgiving and Black Friday Shopping

Written by Elena @The Art of Making a Baby. Posted in Daily

Believe it or not, but I’m pretty much done with my black friday shopping.  All done online. I have one more store to actually go to and that’s it.
Compared to last year’s BF, when we went shopping at midnight and stayed up till 6 am shopping with our friends visiting from Italy, this is a cop out.

Two deals I’d like to bring your attention to that I took advantage of:

Barnes and Noble: 30% off one item. That’s pretty big! I’ve been looking at this big hardcover pregnancy book, “Pregnancy Day By Day” at the stores. It’s 40 bucks and I was planning on buying it once I get pregnant. Well, this was the perfect time for it: $31 online + 30% off= Awesome! It’s a really big book that goes day by day describing what’s going on with your body and daily tips on pregnancy. I will be happy to give the coupon code/link to any of my subscribers- just comment below that you want it and I’ll email it to you.

Deal #2: Bath and Body Works.

I absolutely ADORE their new collections. A few months ago they had a promotion of Buy 3 , get 3 Free on their shower creams, lotions, hand creams, etc. I happened to be at the store the last day of the promotion and decided to try out a few scents. First of all, Oh My God, their new scents are heavenly- really rich and sensual. My favorite was Dark Kiss. I bought a few just to try them out. I don’t tend to like scented body lotions because they are either too watery or don’t moisturize well. But with this line I was pleasantly surprised. It’s a great moisturizer, smells adorably, and last a long time. I have gotten so many compliments on how I smell by simply using the shower cream and the body cream.

So of course, I bought 6 more items, 3 Dark Kiss and 3 other scents to try them out.
There’s a 20% OFF coupon floating around the Internet and also if you spend $40 , which is easy to do, you get a bag of goodies for $20.

So go to town people! And I cannot wait to hear what you bought on Black Friday!